After filing a Freedom of Information request with Toronto Police in March 2025, I learned that I am STILL under police investigation because of lies my former best friend told police in 2024.
The Freedom of Information package is 88 pages and does NOT include the false police reports Caryma filed that led to me still being under investigation for whatever she lied about.
Much of it is made up of call logs, dates, details about my identity & description, CPIC checks, and repetitions of the same reports. Caryma called Toronto Police countless times, and they kept copy/pasting descriptions culled from earlier occurrence reports into their incident reports - creating a broken telephone conga line of cops mindlessly regurgitating Caryma’s endless lies.
BTW, the 88 pages DO NOT contain the damning evidence I received via Disclosure packages. I cannot share screenshots from these materials (but law enforcement and LSO officers are welcome to contact me for more information).
Evidence such as Caryma sitting at her desk in her Spadina St office at 1 AM, lying bold-facedly to two cops in a 40-minute Axon video statement - telling them I’ve been involved in dangerous criminal activity all my life, lying that I had a "restraining order" against me which showed I was a threat to her, and that she worried I might poison her office cats.
On a bookshelf behind her desk was the birthday card (inscribed with a loving message) I’d given her five months earlier, when we spent a couple of days high on mushrooms, planning how our futures would be intertwined. Before she decided to shamelessly defraud me.
The FOI package also doesn’t include Caryma’s 60-page letter to her compliant buddy at 14 Division - a young, gullible, second-generation female cop who ordered my arrest because she believed Caryma implicitly.
This cop was so prejudiced against me, she REFUSED to conduct a proper & impartial investigation, accusing me repeatedly of disobeying police cautions that don’t exist and ignoring “don’t contact me” requests that Caryma never made.
When I asked her if she had seen with her own eyes any evidence of such cautions & warnings, she stuttered, then told me point-blank that I was getting charged anyway.
One of the most memorable highlights is one cop’s handwritten memo-book note, which states in unequivocal terms: “Seems Caryma more concerned about her reputation being soiled than any threats of harm to self.”
I wonder why the FOIA materials don't include stuff that was released to you in disclosure? It's not as though disclosure always shows everything.
FOIA requests - especially when they involve the police screwing the pooch - are always a nightmare. I very much wish you didn't have to fight this out with the police and an uncooperative bureaucracy that's trying to cover their asses. It's just fucking cruel. After everything that woman has put you through, though, I hope in the end all the additional bullshit you're going through to hold her responsible for her actions is worth it to you.
I don't suppose there's any way you can get some of the other people she's gone after, and who thus have a personal stake in seeing that she's unable to keep perpetuating her awful schemes, to help you with any of this? Or are you not allowed to show some of the stuff (apart from what's in the disclosure) to others outside of privileged situations?
From what I understand, the materials in the Disclosure cannot be published publicly, so to err on the side of caution, I don't plan to share them with anyone other than lawyers or law enforcement.
You brought up in your comments the suggestion of perhaps combining efforts with other victims for a class-action-type suit or maneuver. This is not something I am currently considering, least of all because I don't want to muddle the waters. I have a very strong case against her, so I think my case is strong enough for me to move forward on my own.
You make a good point about burdens shared being easier, but the sad reality is, I've had very little support in the last 2 years, from anyone. While I was going through all this trauma, so many so-called activists were mocking, calling me names, attacking me for having "collaborated" with Caryma. It was unbearable and crushing. Meanwhile, she's making up shit to the cops about me being involved in some kind of insane conspiracy where I was working with Antifa to "harass her". She'd be disappointed to hear that nobody approached me with any suggestion of a class-action suit or a joint LSO complaint, etc, and the idea was never on my radar.
What Caryma did to me is far graver than what she did to the others, in the sense that she exploited and defrauded me, ripped me off of thousands of dollars, then LITERALLY LIED TO POLICE and managed to fool the courts into arresting me TWICE, nearly three times, then the fake peace bond, and then keeping me under investigation for 2 years now. She TERRORIZED me. I have a solid case (and overwhelming evidence) for her to be brought up on criminal charges. It's clean and clear-cut. And so, while I will certainly help others with affidavits and testimony (provided that I have any useful information to support their respective cases) for now, I'm keeping to my own lane. Also, the situation has escalated beyond a Bar Association complaint - it's a criminal matter.
There are reasons for my decision that I cannot get into. I think we all know that Caryma and Adam obsessively cyber-stalk their critics and anyone they consider an "enemy". So for obvious reasons, I'm reticent about going into the details on this page and giving her a head's up re. what happens next.
I'm afraid you're going to have to have her charged, with all the attendant stress that brings. I can't see any other way to disprove the baseless accusations against you. Well, I guess you could sue her, but it doesn't sound as though you have enormous cash reserves, and anyway I don't see Caryma losing a suit and then actually paying out. The other route, I guess, is to report her to the Bar Association. I think if I were you I'd try to get together with Jen Evans, Deana Sharif and the others Caryma has harassed in recent years and pull together all the failed charges, failed peace bond applications and so on, and report her to the Association and the police simultaneously but for different reasons, obviously. It's entirely possible the Bar Association doesn't even know Caryma has been misusing her lawyer's status to engage in a criminal level of legal harassment, thus bringing the profession into disrepute - which is one of the only things that gets one of the professional associations off their asses to take action against an erring member.
The thing is, if you succeed in either front, Caryma would finally have to provide some evidence of what the people she's been harassing are supposed to have done, and she can't do that. If she could, the charges wouldn't keep getting dropped and the applications wouldn't keep failing.
I know you've been traumatized by this. I have Complex PTSD myself; I know how crushing it is to muscle through one of one's worst fears, where it seems like everything is a trigger. That's one reason I think uniting with other people she's gone after is the way to go to get some justice and some future peace. Burdens are best shared, and this way you could share any financial burdens as well as the obvious emotional and psychological ones. All of you deserve to be free of her vindictive (and ridiculously expensive) bullshit.
I'm so sorry you've had to go through this. It must be hell and I hate to think of how betrayed you must feel. I just hope you can find one way or another to get free of her toxic and illegal persecution. God knows you deserve better than this.
Thank you for every word you wrote - and for having the empathy to write this insightful message. You are absolutely correct. I know I have to have her charged. Up until now, the FOI documentation was the bottleneck - I had to have it as proof for my police report. Having FINALLY received all the FOI documents (after a curiously long and inexplicable delay, which required escalation up the chain), I can now move forward.
It's excrutiating, having to deal with police and to review police files, while struggling with both PTSD at what they did to me, and with my lifelong phobia. But this is what Caryma is counting on - and I will NOT allow the trauma she caused me to block my path to justice. I will press charges - and there is more than enough evidence for several criminal charges to be laid - and pursue this through the courts.
Aside from pressing charges against her and seeking compensation in civil court, I will also seek accountability for what 14 Division police did to me - I expect I will be filing a civil action against them this fall and filing complaints with LECA. Again, the FOI was the bottleneck, and I believe the several months-long delay was intentional.
I will follow up with the LSO after she is arrested. They haven't done anything so far, despite numerous complaints that have gone on FOR YEARS. I believe they are looking the other way to save face, while her and Adam's criminal activity continues and people's lives are destroyed in the process. I believe she and Adam are deliberately trying to drive me to suicide - but she won't get away with it.
I don't have a choice but to ensure Caryma is criminally charged and prosecuted for what she did to me. Because if I don't, she will continue her criminal harassment against me and others. It ends this year.
The Freedom of Information package is 88 pages and does NOT include the false police reports Caryma filed that led to me still being under investigation for whatever she lied about.
Much of it is made up of call logs, dates, details about my identity & description, CPIC checks, and repetitions of the same reports. Caryma called Toronto Police countless times, and they kept copy/pasting descriptions culled from earlier occurrence reports into their incident reports - creating a broken telephone conga line of cops mindlessly regurgitating Caryma’s endless lies.
BTW, the 88 pages DO NOT contain the damning evidence I received via Disclosure packages. I cannot share screenshots from these materials (but law enforcement and LSO officers are welcome to contact me for more information).
Evidence such as Caryma sitting at her desk in her Spadina St office at 1 AM, lying bold-facedly to two cops in a 40-minute Axon video statement - telling them I’ve been involved in dangerous criminal activity all my life, lying that I had a "restraining order" against me which showed I was a threat to her, and that she worried I might poison her office cats.
On a bookshelf behind her desk was the birthday card (inscribed with a loving message) I’d given her five months earlier, when we spent a couple of days high on mushrooms, planning how our futures would be intertwined. Before she decided to shamelessly defraud me.
The FOI package also doesn’t include Caryma’s 60-page letter to her compliant buddy at 14 Division - a young, gullible, second-generation female cop who ordered my arrest because she believed Caryma implicitly.
This cop was so prejudiced against me, she REFUSED to conduct a proper & impartial investigation, accusing me repeatedly of disobeying police cautions that don’t exist and ignoring “don’t contact me” requests that Caryma never made.
When I asked her if she had seen with her own eyes any evidence of such cautions & warnings, she stuttered, then told me point-blank that I was getting charged anyway.
One of the most memorable highlights is one cop’s handwritten memo-book note, which states in unequivocal terms: “Seems Caryma more concerned about her reputation being soiled than any threats of harm to self.”
I wonder why the FOIA materials don't include stuff that was released to you in disclosure? It's not as though disclosure always shows everything.
FOIA requests - especially when they involve the police screwing the pooch - are always a nightmare. I very much wish you didn't have to fight this out with the police and an uncooperative bureaucracy that's trying to cover their asses. It's just fucking cruel. After everything that woman has put you through, though, I hope in the end all the additional bullshit you're going through to hold her responsible for her actions is worth it to you.
I don't suppose there's any way you can get some of the other people she's gone after, and who thus have a personal stake in seeing that she's unable to keep perpetuating her awful schemes, to help you with any of this? Or are you not allowed to show some of the stuff (apart from what's in the disclosure) to others outside of privileged situations?
From what I understand, the materials in the Disclosure cannot be published publicly, so to err on the side of caution, I don't plan to share them with anyone other than lawyers or law enforcement.
You brought up in your comments the suggestion of perhaps combining efforts with other victims for a class-action-type suit or maneuver. This is not something I am currently considering, least of all because I don't want to muddle the waters. I have a very strong case against her, so I think my case is strong enough for me to move forward on my own.
You make a good point about burdens shared being easier, but the sad reality is, I've had very little support in the last 2 years, from anyone. While I was going through all this trauma, so many so-called activists were mocking, calling me names, attacking me for having "collaborated" with Caryma. It was unbearable and crushing. Meanwhile, she's making up shit to the cops about me being involved in some kind of insane conspiracy where I was working with Antifa to "harass her". She'd be disappointed to hear that nobody approached me with any suggestion of a class-action suit or a joint LSO complaint, etc, and the idea was never on my radar.
What Caryma did to me is far graver than what she did to the others, in the sense that she exploited and defrauded me, ripped me off of thousands of dollars, then LITERALLY LIED TO POLICE and managed to fool the courts into arresting me TWICE, nearly three times, then the fake peace bond, and then keeping me under investigation for 2 years now. She TERRORIZED me. I have a solid case (and overwhelming evidence) for her to be brought up on criminal charges. It's clean and clear-cut. And so, while I will certainly help others with affidavits and testimony (provided that I have any useful information to support their respective cases) for now, I'm keeping to my own lane. Also, the situation has escalated beyond a Bar Association complaint - it's a criminal matter.
There are reasons for my decision that I cannot get into. I think we all know that Caryma and Adam obsessively cyber-stalk their critics and anyone they consider an "enemy". So for obvious reasons, I'm reticent about going into the details on this page and giving her a head's up re. what happens next.
I'm afraid you're going to have to have her charged, with all the attendant stress that brings. I can't see any other way to disprove the baseless accusations against you. Well, I guess you could sue her, but it doesn't sound as though you have enormous cash reserves, and anyway I don't see Caryma losing a suit and then actually paying out. The other route, I guess, is to report her to the Bar Association. I think if I were you I'd try to get together with Jen Evans, Deana Sharif and the others Caryma has harassed in recent years and pull together all the failed charges, failed peace bond applications and so on, and report her to the Association and the police simultaneously but for different reasons, obviously. It's entirely possible the Bar Association doesn't even know Caryma has been misusing her lawyer's status to engage in a criminal level of legal harassment, thus bringing the profession into disrepute - which is one of the only things that gets one of the professional associations off their asses to take action against an erring member.
The thing is, if you succeed in either front, Caryma would finally have to provide some evidence of what the people she's been harassing are supposed to have done, and she can't do that. If she could, the charges wouldn't keep getting dropped and the applications wouldn't keep failing.
I know you've been traumatized by this. I have Complex PTSD myself; I know how crushing it is to muscle through one of one's worst fears, where it seems like everything is a trigger. That's one reason I think uniting with other people she's gone after is the way to go to get some justice and some future peace. Burdens are best shared, and this way you could share any financial burdens as well as the obvious emotional and psychological ones. All of you deserve to be free of her vindictive (and ridiculously expensive) bullshit.
I'm so sorry you've had to go through this. It must be hell and I hate to think of how betrayed you must feel. I just hope you can find one way or another to get free of her toxic and illegal persecution. God knows you deserve better than this.
Thank you for every word you wrote - and for having the empathy to write this insightful message. You are absolutely correct. I know I have to have her charged. Up until now, the FOI documentation was the bottleneck - I had to have it as proof for my police report. Having FINALLY received all the FOI documents (after a curiously long and inexplicable delay, which required escalation up the chain), I can now move forward.
It's excrutiating, having to deal with police and to review police files, while struggling with both PTSD at what they did to me, and with my lifelong phobia. But this is what Caryma is counting on - and I will NOT allow the trauma she caused me to block my path to justice. I will press charges - and there is more than enough evidence for several criminal charges to be laid - and pursue this through the courts.
Aside from pressing charges against her and seeking compensation in civil court, I will also seek accountability for what 14 Division police did to me - I expect I will be filing a civil action against them this fall and filing complaints with LECA. Again, the FOI was the bottleneck, and I believe the several months-long delay was intentional.
I will follow up with the LSO after she is arrested. They haven't done anything so far, despite numerous complaints that have gone on FOR YEARS. I believe they are looking the other way to save face, while her and Adam's criminal activity continues and people's lives are destroyed in the process. I believe she and Adam are deliberately trying to drive me to suicide - but she won't get away with it.
I don't have a choice but to ensure Caryma is criminally charged and prosecuted for what she did to me. Because if I don't, she will continue her criminal harassment against me and others. It ends this year.